Here’s the thing: I have heard numerous horror stories from past brides that have used me for a non-wedding event or it’s their second marriage, and when I ask them if they have ever had their makeup professionally done, they tell me they either hated it or they could describe in detail why they didn’t end up booking an artist (after a trial gone wrong). And it doesn’t stop there. It’s also very easy to be taken advantage of as a bride. I’m sure you can google a quick search about brides and their beauty nightmares and find stories of sneaky artists. I know I’ve seen them!
This is NOT OKAY. This saddens me to my core. I believe hair & makeup should be the least of your worries on your wedding day!
So in order to help you avoid a terrible situation like those unfortunate beauties, I have created some guidelines and questions for you to ask YOURSELF about a potential hair and makeup artist.
Feel free to print or copy & paste to a Word Doc!
Questions you should be asking yourself when you are researching a hair and makeup artist for your wedding:
1). Is it clear on what they offer in terms of style?
2). Do they offer the style, products and/or services I am looking for?
3). Are they letting me know how and when my date is secure?
4). Is there a separate fee to do a bridal trial, or is it included in the wedding day package? Can I do the trial anytime? Can I use the trial for one of my bridal events?
5). Do they require a minimum of services to book?
Questions you should be asking yourself when you are having a bridal trial with a hair and makeup artist:
1). Are they listening to my wants and needs?
2). Are they treating me and my face/hair with respect?
3). How long do I have to decide, after my trial, to book my date?
4). Are they cleanly and organized with their kit? Do their brushes smell nice? Are they taking sanitary precautions?
5). Am I enjoying our conversation? Does their scent bother me?
Questions you should be asking yourself when you are booking a hair and makeup artist for your wedding:
1). Have they been clear about the charges that will occur when I book them? Are there taxes or fees involved when I submit payments?
2). Are they having me sign a contract and put down a retainer?
3). What services outside of the hair and makeup are they offering or doing for me?
4). In the event, I have a service that needs to cancel, what is their policy for services cancelled? (Especially with COVID-19 going around).
5). Have they contradicted anything they’ve said since the beginning of our communication? Do I trust them?
I hope this helps you on your journey to booking hair and makeup for your wedding in 2020! If you liked this, you might enjoy my free, downloadable Organized Bride Guide. This is for every bride that either needs to get on track with their beauty planning or is ahead of plan and needs more homework! After all, the essential planning is what makes everything run smoothly on your wedding day!
It’s a new year, new decade, and it’s time to step into your best self yet.
This post is not about how to stick to a resolution, it’s about coming to a realization that your life is about to change because you are getting married this year. You are going to become a wife. Your identity is going to shift. I believe awareness is a powerful tool and becoming aware of what’s ahead is helpful to prepare yourself for what’s to come.
Let’s not get overwhelmed with what could happen. Let’s not stress about being overstressed. Let’s learn to accept ourselves when we aren’t on a diet. Let’s learn to love ourselves at every phase of our lives. Let’s finally learn how to care for ourselves before we need to, so that when you are finally married and then maybe start to have kids, that you’ll know how to treat yourself and then take care of others.
Diets– Can we all just recognize that the word ‘diet’ includes the word ‘die’? Maybe a dramatic look on the word, but let’s be real, the word is always followed by a huge, longsigh. So screw it! Words of encouragement: Focus on fueling your body with what you know deep down inside you need first. Girl, if that is a piece of dark chocolate, do it. I think you’ll find that it isn’t that cheesy, stuffed jalapeno wrapped in bacon, but more like a glass of water or well, maybe just a few bites of lemon zested kale first.
Stress– Ah! Such a heavy thing this can be! I can count on all my fingers and toes the times I’ve heard women say they want to learn how to be less stressed. Why? Stress helps you get things done, it helps you fight or flight. Stress tells you when you made a bad decision. Learn from this! Pay attention when stress is kicking in and choose whether it needs to be present or not.
Routine– I am the last person on the planet who can tell you the perfect routine for you because I am routinely trying new routines, pun intended! There are 4 seasons in a year, which probably means, you’ll be in at least 4 different stages of routine per year. The beautiful part of this is that you get to decide what that looks like for you. Some parts of the year I need to be at the gym 5 days a week to manage my stress, and other times I desire yoga and dance for my soul. I am in charge of what my routine looks like and no one can take that from me. Say it with me: No one can take that from me. The best routine for yourself is when you put yourself first.
The Best Version of You– The best for last. The part where you can let your imagination run wild and envision what the best version of you actually looks like. Close your eyes for 5, maybe even 10 minutes if you have it, and visualize what you see when you are post-wedding and the bride bliss starts to slow, and things go back to “normal”. Are you still taking care of yourself even though you aren’t wedding prepping? Write what you see down on paper. This is your starting point. This is where you decide to make a conscious effort to change for more than just the wedding, but for your soon-to-be husband, your dog, your future children, and most importantly your future self. Cheers to future you, girl!
I hope this unconventional post from a bridal artist moves you to not only be a bride in 2020 but a ‘bride for life’. You deserve all the pampering and care in the world, so embrace this!
With love and energy,
Chelsea
About the author–My name is Chelsea and I’ve served as a makeup artist for nearly a decade. I’ve transformed more faces than I can think of and curled way more heads of hair than I have ever curled my own. If hair & makeup wasn’t a gift bestowed upon me, well by now it is a superpower. I can’t unlearn it and I don’t want to! I love having the skillset to beautify brides and bridesmaids for weddings in San Diego (my main niche) and the special opportunity my brideys give me when I am apart of their special occasion!! You can learn more about me in the About section.
This is the official spot to get familiar with me, Chelsea, owner of Chelsea Rose Beauty. It’s a company, but also half of me and my identity.
I’ve served as a makeup artist for nearly a decade. I’ve transformed more faces than I can think of and curled so many hairs, I can tell you how your hair will hold a curl before I even touch it. If hair & makeup wasn’t a gift bestowed upon me, well by now it is a skill set. I can’t unlearn it and I don’t want to! I love having the power to beautify brides and bridesmaids (my main niche) and the special opportunity my brideys give me when I am apart of their special occasion!! You can learn more about me in the About section.
As for this blog, you can expect to learn from me about why I use airbrush makeup, how to feel your best for your wedding day, and much more you should know as a bride! –And hey, even if you are not a bride, you may be able to learn a thing or two about the world of beauty.
