What You Need to Know About Brow and Lash Treatments
If you’re a bride, or beauty, that’s looking to see if you should get your eyebrows laminated and stained, or lashes lifted and tinted… please keep reading!
I recently had my eyebrows laminated, stained, waxed & trimmed, AND if that wasn’t enough I also did a lash lift and tint, conveniently through the same artist.
If there’s 2 things you should know about me, it’s that:
I have sensitive eyes and sensitive skin so I am usually very hesitant to try new things unless I fully research the treatment.
Because I am quite literally the face of my business, I am very cautious of what I do to my face and need to trust the artist I pick.
So per my usual style, let’s just dive in!
Here’s a quick recap video of my brow and lash transformation
Let’s first start off with who this isn’t for.
If you don’t want to feel more confident, look like you are more awake, and be able to just roll out of bed and go, then this isn’t for you.
All jokes aside, I’ll give you the real pro’s and con’s list below and then you decide 🙂
First up: Eyebrow Tinting, Waxing, and Lamination:
I absolutely loved this way more than I thought I would.
I am someone who always prioritizes filling in my brows because they are thin and sparse and I have a couple of gaps.
Because there are variations of how deep you can go with the tint, I recommend trying this out beforehand to get comfortable with it.
Myth Debunked: I thought my eyebrows would be frozen in one place but I can brush them any way I like.
The Facts:
A brow lamination lasts about 4-6 weeks.
The stain will last anywhere from a few days to 10 days. So it’s important to follow the aftercare instructions for the best retention.
When scheduling a brow stain/lamination, make sure you have a 2-day buffer afterward because you won’t be able to wash your face, excessive sweating, wear makeup, receive any other eye or facial treatments, spray tan, or spend too much time in the sun.
You must avoid any Retinols, anti-aging products, acids, or exfoliants from 3 days before until 3 days after.
You want to prioritize moisturizing products around the brown area instead. After 48 hours you can use a brow conditioner.
Now for the pros and cons…
Pros: They give you a lifted youthful look and for doing make up, they are surprisingly easier to work with than non-laminated brows. It’s easier because you can see where you need to fill in using less makeup product, therefore avoiding having too dark of brows, which I know is a common “ick” for my clients.
Cons: you won’t know if you have an allergic reaction until 2-3 days after the process, so I recommend trying this before the wedding. Also, no hot showers or baths within the first 48 hours because it can cause the brow to frizz or curl.
Next up, Lash Tinting and Lift:
Important to know: there are 2 different types of lift, a curve, and a L shape.
Curve is going to look the most natural because it mimics the look of curled lashes. Curve shape will still give you the flexibility to add a strip of lashes on top.
L shape is a more dramatic effect if you really want that extra length. It will open the eyes more. With an L shape lift, you would have to forgo lashes on the wedding day, or have an experienced makeup artist apply individuals on the underside of your lashes (I’ve done this before and it turned out so beautiful).
Here’s the scoop:
If you have super short lashes, you may not be an ideal candidate for a lash lift.
A lash lift/tint lasts about 6-8 weeks.
Tinting helps dramatize your natural lashes, this is great no matter what color you lashes you have naturally.
Doing a tint will also aid in the blending process of your natural lashes with any false lashes.
If you have blonde or red lashes, you may want to try a brown tint if black mascara is too dramatic of a change for you.
When scheduling a lash tint/lift, make sure you have a 2 day buffer afterward because you won’t be able to wash your face, excessive sweating, wear makeup on the eyes, receive any other eye or facial treatments, spray tan, or spend too much time in the sun.
Now here are the pros and cons:
Pros: It gives you that open eye look, so you appear more awake, less tired, and the eye looks lifted. You don’t have to wear mascara if you don’t want to, and it’s less maintenance than lash extensions. I consider this a pro, but in case you end up with too curly of lashes, you can have your professional reverse it right away with a relaxer.
Cons: you won’t know if you have an allergic reaction until 2-3 days after the process so I do recommend trying this well in advance before the wedding. You must avoid rubbing your eyes. You must make sure to avoid harsh skincare products or products containing oils. Tubing mascara only, no waterproof.
Overall, I can now confidently recommend a Curve Lash Lift (for clients wanting to still wear lashes so they can go and look cute for the honeymoon), as well as highly recommend a brow lamination.
Still have questions?
Feel free to drop a question in the comment or DM me on IG @chelsearosebeauty
5 Things You Need to Focus on if You Want a Glow Up in 2024
As the new year approaches us, I was doing some self-reflection and realized that the number one thing that helped me create the relationship of my dreams, finally pay off debt, and start finally showing up 100% confident in life and in business doing exactly what I’ve dreamed of…it all comes down to my self-care habits.
If you’re just starting your Self-Care Era, you’re probably wondering, “But what exactly are self-care habits???” Well, I am a self-care enthusiast and here to help you out with my Top 5 Things to Focus on if You Are Ready For a Glow Up in 2024.
But first, let me give you the short and sweet low-down on different types of self-care habits and a couple of examples. There are 6 types of self-care habits and you are likely in the habit of doing at least 3 on a regular basis: 1. Physical – eating healthily and moving your body 2. Mental – reading a book 3. Emotional – therapy 4. Spiritual – prayer 5. Social – spending quality time with supportive friends 6. Sensory – getting a facial
I go into more detail on the 6 different types of self-care and different habits you can incorporate into your new Glow Up Routine for 2024 in my new Self-Care, Goals, and Finance Planner.
Okay now let’s get into my 5 things you need to focus on if you are ready for a glow up in 2024! But I should warn you may also feel more self-confident and less anxious if you keep doing this over time
1. First, you gotta start focusing on YOU – What do YOU want? What are you not creating in this life that physically hurts your soul that it keeps getting pushed off? To start taking action, you need to put your head down and reflect on which area of your life needs healing. Love on it until it becomes part of your daily habits. Self care is not selfish, it helps you be better equipped to help others.
2. Gratitude: express your love and appreciation for the things and people you already have in your life, and do the same for what you desire to have in your life. This is a practice called Law of Assumption.
3. Affirmations: in order to change your life, you have to change how your mind is programmed. Challenge each negative thought that comes through. Write down the affirmations you want to believe about yourself and your life.
“THE DEFINITION OF ‘INSANITY’ IS DOING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS”. –ALBERT EINSTEIN
4. Your habits – what habits and actions are you doing that withhold you from achieving your dreams? Which habits will propel you forward? Be intentional with your daily/weekly/monthly routines.
5. Enjoy the present moment – This is like a follow up to number 3. Without enjoying and appreciating everything you have now (ie your body, your home, your career, your finances), even if it’s not up to par with your dream world, you will stay stuck in a constant state of “wanting”. By doing so keeps you from ever actually getting what you want, or at least prolonging it and making it very hard!). You have to start today with where you’re at and stop waiting for things to be this or that. There is NOT a perfect time to start, it’s simply a decision that YOU must make. Never forget how powerful it is when you make a decision with commitment energy.
Your Beauty Reset Routine for the First of the Month
In case you needed a reminder, it’s a new month!
A new month feels like a productive Tuesday to me. I love the fresh energy that a new month brings. Now is the perfect time to plan out your month in terms of your beauty routine. As a very detail-oriented beauty expert, I love to plan out my month in advance so I can spend less time stressing about my look or wondering if I added my favorite body wash to the cart.
Have you ever been taking a shower and noticed you need to shave but then realized your razor is dull so you hop out of the shower in a frantic search for a new razor blade only to find you have none even though you swear you just bought some? And now the bathroom floor is soaked…ugh.
That is exactly why I made you a checklist to go through at the first of every single month so you can stay organized and take a mental load off.
I’m going to have you scheduling all of your beauty appointments, washing your brushes, throwing out any expired products, and giving away unused products if they’ve been just sitting on your shelf (Trust me, I know this one is hard, I do it too), but you’ll be thanking yourself later when you calmly show up to your hair appointment with your favorite booked-out hairstylist. And no more running out of bath soap or razor blades!
Here’s your list! Comment below and let me know if it helps you!
In this post, you’ll identify how you’re feeling and then compliment or address that feeling with the appropriate self-care ritual.
As someone who is very introspective and has had a lot of healing to work through (relationship woes, inner child work, low self-esteem, etc) it dawned on me that maybe you are aware of some healing you’d like to do but don’t know how, or even where to start.
Let’s first start by identifying how you are feeling. Please refer to the Feelings Wheel below, developed by Dr. Gloria Willcox. The 6 feelings in the center are core and over-arching to the feelings and emotions that stem from them.
You’ll notice as we move through the ways to practice your self-care ritual, we are almost always trying to get from one side of the wheel to its opposite.
Feeling Anxious or Stressed?
Get up and dance, whether it’s a 5-minute dance break from work or it’s scheduling time to go to a dance class
Go on a walk around the block with a 10-20 minute meditation.
Feeling Creative?
Unleash your artist! Paint, watercolor, sketch, throw a pot, really anything that creates a piece of art using your hands
Try baking a yummy recipe or cooking. Baking is more of a science but the outcome can be very awarding, whereas cooking is typically more forgiving and I personally find it therapeutic. Both give you the option to be a food artist at the end!
Feeling Bored or like you need to Express yourself?
This is a great time to care for something, like a plant or even getting a kitten! These both require a commitment but you’ll get the opportunity to express your nurturing side of you that you may not use often.
Start a business or a side hustle! A business is something that also requires a commitment and invites you to nurture it. It’s a great way to express the gifts you have to the world.
Feeling Tired or Overworked?
Get pampered. Hit up the spa, get your nails done, or treat yourself to a blowout.
Relax. Take an Epsom salt bath or listen to meditation music, surround yourself with crystals, and lie down for a brief moment.
Feeling Disconnected or Lonely? Hurt or Discouraged?
Journal out everything you are thinking and feeling off about and then close it out by writing everything that you are proud of. Bonus points for also writing out some positive “I AM” affirmations.
Pray. Express how you’re feeling in the moment and then express gratitude for the feelings becoming rectified.
Feeling Angry or Frustrated?
Pull out the hoodie sweatshirt, or a dad hat, and hit the gym for a weight-lifting workout or a treadmill run. Don’t forget noise-canceling headphones if you really want to tune everything out.
Silence your phone and then have a good cry, or scream, just make sure you are alone in a safe place. Once the original feeling passes, you may have a second feeling come through, so read above to which one suits you at the moment.
Just remember that your feelings are valid and need recognition and you need to express them in a healthy way. It’s paramount to your health and your future best self.
If you are a bride struggling with juggling the ups and downs of wedding planning, I invite you to join us inside the DIY Bride community as we all learn how to incorporate real self-care routines so you can cultivate the self-confidence it takes to be a blissful bride.
I hope you started off your morning feeling empowered for the week ahead. Part of my new morning routine is incorporating a practice called Morning Pages which is dedicating 3 full pages of a journal to a complete brain dump. This helps to unblock your creativity and relieves daily anxieties.
Anyway, today I found myself journaling about what I was proud of myself for incorporating into my life and sticking to, so I thought I’d share in case you need some support in these areas:
Staying Hydrated – I stepped up my water game with this hydration powder and have had it every day for the past 2 months. I love that it tastes delicious without sugar (organic stevia only) and no artificial dyes. Adding these minerals into your diet can be so beneficial if you struggle with headaches, muscle soreness, and never feeling hydrated enough no matter how much water you drink.
Mastering My Blowout – Just because I can do other people’s hair, doesn’t mean I have mine all figured out…that is until I started using this anti-humidity treatment after every wash and since then I have been actually enjoying washing my hair for once just so I can blow dry it and feel cute & confident!
Creating a Sleep Haven – I think I just need to do a whole separate blog post on this but my pre-sleep routine is so divine. I’ll spray a room spray and then this wonderful pillow mist and climb into bed with a cup of magnesium bedtime tea and I slip into the most relaxed state and wake up actually feeling refreshed and excited to get everything done for the next day.
Now, these habits are not only great for day-to-day self-care but especially ideal for the week of your wedding. The week of the wedding is a constant marathon and self-care can easily be overlooked as beauty routine chores. The difference is your intention and mindfulness with each practice.
For more ways to incorporate a mindful self-care practice check out this blog post:
My ultimate mission & passion is beauty beyond the vanity. We look beautiful not because we try every new facial out there, and have the best bridal artist, but because we’ve learned to cultivate self-confidence and it radiates on the outside. I want to help brides find their confidence & bliss through learning real self-care practices.
In a world engulfed in the latest beauty rituals & over-scheduled lifestyles, it’s no wonder you may find yourself still exhausted even after your weekly Epsom salt bath.
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Although these things are nice, true self-care isn’t just sheet masks & bubble baths. It’s quite literally taking care of YourSelf.
“But how do you do that? How do you know if you’re doing it right? Can’t I just do what influencers do and call it a day? Why am I still stressed out?”
Well, are you checking in on yourself?
Like you would a friend. “Hey, I thought of you today & hope you’re doing alright. I miss you and want to get together next week if you’re free”
Do you do that with yourself, but like, every day?
I”ll be the first to say I don’t, but I’m working towards it on a regular basis.
I do know that the more I practice real “self-care” the more I feel like myself, but better, always new, refreshed, vibrant, and blissful. It also makes me feel more joyful, giving, radiant, and beautiful. Taking care of yourself is not limited to lengthy skincare routines, but maybe your skincare routine can also be a time you use affirmations to uplift yourself.
Does taking bubble baths sound like they’d be nice? But then you get in and you’re just stuck with your overwhelming thoughts? Bring a journal & some colorful pens with you and just let it out, every thought. and then let it go.
Don’t let another day go by without recognizing the things you do already do to take care of yourself AND also see what’s missing.
Ask yourself what YOU need. Trust you will always receive the right answer.
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Here are some simple questions to start asking yourself. You can do this by free-writing in a journal or just spending a couple of minutes on each question to think about.
Am I consistent with exercising &/or walks to help relieve mental stress & make me feel more strong & confident in my body?
Am I eating nourishing foods in balance with sweets or treats?
Am I properly hydrated?
Are my hormones balanced?
Am I legitimately taking care of myself?
When was the last time I intentionally took myself out on a solo date? (there’s a difference between getting your nails done because you “need” to versus arriving at the nail salon grateful that you get to soak your feet & have your arms rubbed for the next 2 hours while sipping Champagne).
Do I talk to myself nicely or am I consistently catching myself saying mean things I would never say to a friend?
How am I doing today? What happened today that evoked an emotion in me? Let it out, girl!
I encourage you to ask yourself these questions. No shame in feeling discouraged if the answer is not an honest Yes. Avoidance is typically a sign of what we actually need to focus on. Let’s face it now. A little discomfort now beats a bridezilla moment on your wedding day!
But I should warn you may also feel more self-confident and less anxious if you keep doing this over time
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